Regan. Please be careful (said with sadness in her voice)

My parents and I truly enjoy life. We are comical, hilarious and lively.  Over the past few years my #BUILTFORDTOUGH posts have provided therapy for me as I maneuver this only child life of mine with ageing parents.

It is rare that either of my parents tell me that I should NOT do things. Heck….they tell me to “go for it” on every idea, thought and dream that I express!!!  My Mom shows NO FEAR…EVER!!!!

Today was different…..

I check on my folks regularly. They. Crack. Me. Up. I love them to pieces.

This morning my Mom told me to “please be careful“. I have heard this before, but this morning there was a sadness in her voice that broke me.  She said it again  “Regan…PLEASE be careful“.

What breaks my heart is that she isn’t saying “be careful” because I am headed overseas alone, or a safari adventure or bull riding lessons or taking gymnastics at 47….but because I am going to go get in my car and do my daily routine…..sad.

#BlackLivesMatter

Doing my Civic Duty

I must be on the top of the Jury Duty list.

So, I received my every other year Jury Duty summons.

Me:  I get this thing EVERY OTHER YEAR.  Neither ONE of you EVER get called for Jury Duty

Dad:  We too old for Jury duty.

Mom:  Last time I was on Jury Duty, it was the Grand Jury.  We spent a day listening to various cases.  The next day they wanted us to make our decisions.  I told them, I forgot everything, we need to review them again.  Oooo the looks I got.  I haven’t been called since.

Dad:  Yeah…..you have to find our glasses, can you imagine me reviewing some Discovery….sooo.  Not me.

Mommy is turning into her Mommy

It’s official…my mother has turned into her mother.

We decide to go and have a nice brunch on the water.

My mother looks at the menu and says…

“This is too much!!! I just want a PLAIN cup of coffee, a FRIED pork chop and a slice of WHITE bread”

All I needed for her to do next is light a cigarette and ask for a glass of vodka with just a little ice.

#IMissMyMama
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